BDSM Escorts
BDSM escorts are a very niche part of the escort market and are most commonly found in London. They are beautiful, charming and intense ladies who provide a very specialist escort service to gentlemen requiring companionship with a soft BDSM touch. It is important to state that the fetish services provided by these companions need to be conduct in a safe manner. It is a very entertaining and fulfilling service to many gentlemen, especially high powered businessmen, who are the most frequent users of the service. They are so used to be being the boss and being in a position of power that they need come fantasy fetish companionship and BDSM escort services to provide that balance in their lives. Their are many components to the BDSM companionship service. Below is a concise overview of these aspects of the service. There are a select number of escort agencies and specialist independents that provide light BDSM services throughout London and the UK. They have a wide selection of fetish clothing that they wear. Also some have specialist furniture, accessories and apparatus including paddles, benches, whips and canes.
The Distinction - Escorts & The Professionals
The one key talking point is that many professionals (dominatrixes) in the BDSM community to not hold escorts who provide a variation of their service in any high regard. BDSM is seen as a type of 'art form' and sometimes escorts are seen as imposters to this art. There is always a grey area surround the escort market which has always carried some form of taboo. The fact that the word 'escort' is combined with BDSM is seen to many as an insult. Due to the fact there are some escorts and agencies that do not adhere strictly to the provision of companionship only services. Maybe there are different expectations client wise from a BDSM escort as opposed to a professional dominatrix. HOWEVER it is up to the escort service provider to state clearly that the service they provide is companionship only and is strictly a fantasy based date. within the actual service safety is essential. All boundaries should be respected. If not, one or even both parties could be liable for assault. The OAD website is a brilliant online resource that features many BDSM professionals, as well as Dominatrixes, escorts and Mistresses.
BDSM Companionship Services:
Many escorts and agencies do provide the following types of fantasy based services. The most professional always adhere to the strictest standards of safety control. The application of each BDSM discipline from an escorting point of view is done in a light hearted manner. Fantasy takes the forefront rather than professional application in many instances.
Services Include:
- Light Bondage - There are various levels of bondage; simply it is the process of restriction of an individual. From ropes to handcuffs, the escort fantasy element of it all is a form of role play. Many high powered executives like this form of escort service because it is a way for them to relinquish their power momentarily. Light bondage you can see is at the lowest level or 'degree' on the bondage spectrum.
- Fetish Services - Many gentlemen who have a particular fetish (maybe dressing up in PVC skirts) do not have an outlet where they can share their special interest. Maybe they are married but dare not tell their wife of their fetish because they fear ridicule or even divorce. So a fetish escort service gives them a non judgemental environment to explore their fetish.
- Role Play - This is the ultimate fantasy inspired date. This is where you can combine many aspects of a BDSM service and wrap it in your own imagination. or you do not have to incorporate any BDSM element, you could simply want to encounter a date of mystery. Uniform escorts provide the best role play escort dates. From naughty nurses to fantasy French maids; it is one of the fast growing and newly popular escort services in London apparently.
- Light Domination - This is a more 'playful' and light hearted fantasy dominatrix experience. Where the power infrastructure is still in place (the dominatrix escort has the power).
- Light Discipline - This can be verbal or a physical act. Light spanking and verbal abuse. This is seen as the most extreme form of BDSM and in an escort service context the one key component is safety. There are important things for service providers to think about. One key aspect is the mental state a client is in before the service. There should actually be a more robust process beforehand to ensure that the person receiving the service is in a healthy state of mind. However it always boils down to practicalities that some agencies and independents may not have the means and ways to incorporate.