Boundaries For Escort Clients
Escorts will meet new people every week and basically whether new or existing clients, there has to be clear boundaries for escort clients. The most obvious boundary is in regards to the respecting the personal space and the escort themselves. No unwanted touching, remarks or advances that the escort does not feel comfortable with. the personal safety of the escort is paramount. If a client can not respect those boundaries within an escort date, the escort has the write to end the date there and then. The boundaries naturally will be explained from the offset or maybe a slight stray slightly over what the escort feels comfortable with will initiate that conversation instead. Having boundaries in place safeguards both escort and client and allows two parties to simply enjoy each others company.
As some escort services can be GFE, romantic - the whole girlfriend experience, there runs a risk of clients developing genuine feelings of love towards the escort. A client can fall in love with an escort. This can lead to a client trying to initiate contact outside the dynamics of an escort booking. Maybe turning up at their house unexpectedly or becoming quite possessive over the companion. This is very uncomfortable for the escorts involved and can really shake them up. They feel sometimes powerless to stop this unwanted affection and see it as a great intrusion into their private lives way from escorting. Obviously even the most experience escorts who do their best to screen clientele they meet can fall victim to this. So the key is from the offset for escorts to set clear boundaries from the beginning. This actually happens during the booking process, before the date. The chance to talk and set some ground rules. If they have a website, then they should have these rules displayed as part of the terms and conditions of their service. So clearly setting out the fundamentals of what has to be adhered to from the initial communication is vital for every escort.
Your Website Is Vital
One of the best ways to establish those boundaries is to have that information on your website. Not only that, anybody who books your companionship service; you have to get them to read the terms and conditions. Also you can read them out to them when you are on the phone. That way there can be no misunderstandings about all the aspects of your escort service. Especially for BDSM, fetish and dominatrix escorts, due to their companionship being so diverse; their has to be rules. This not only safeguards the escort but as well the client. Especially any aspects of (bondage or spanking) for BDSM escorts; their has to be strict rules in place. Your website is often the first port of call when somebody is looking for an incall or outcall. So by making it as informative as you can helps both parties considerably. Given the more publicised incidents, there has been a rise in genuine escort safety fears, the more attacks you hear of.
Here are some key rules and boundaries you need to set in places as the escort:
- Never answer calls from withheld numbers. Only speak to clients on a land line number; one which you have vetted against an address.
- Never communicate or accept bookings via e-mail or text.
- Never give your client your personal phone number. You have a work number, that is sufficient enough.
- Be mindful of accepting gifts from clients. Always understand what the intention behind the gift is. Also ensure they fully understand why you are accepting the gift and for what reasons.
- If in doubt, do not take the booking. If for any reason you have a bad gut feeling about somebody; then don't take the risk.
- Do not encourage contact with the client outside their booking.
- Do not take an abuse from a client. No form is acceptable. Make your excuse intelligently and leave.
- Let them know from the offset that sexual advances from them will cause the booking to be cancelled immediately.
- For BDSM, fetish and domination services ensure the client knows the full boundaries to all the services.
- Always be confident and make sure that all the information you give is clear, concise and with authority.