Marrying An Escort - Can It Work?

Escorts are no different from everyday people. They can have relationships and those can easily develop into marriage. However people change when they get married and a partner in a normal relationship, can be fine with their escort girlfriend going on dates, but when it comes to a commitment like marriage, many people start thinking about settling down and starting a family. So can escorts have successful marriages? Well any marriage has the potential to fail for a whole catalogue of reasons. So if an escort gets married its just a different set of potential issues that can come to the horizon. The key is that by taking that step into marriage, it could be beneficial for the couple to go to pre-marriage counselling where they can talk about the issue of escorting and how that will work ion the framework of a marriage.

Husbands could have been fine with having a girlfriend as an escort but they may want their new wife to find a different career path. You could say there is a level of hypocrisy in that as they were fine with it when they were dating and many people can be in just a serious a relationship and not be married. However many people think that being married comes with an extra responsibility and commitment to each other.

 

Things For Escorts To Think About When Married:

1) Discuss with your partner if how they feel about you continuing escorting while you are married. By not discussing this issue and coming up with your own assumptions can lead to problems in your marriage when the issue arises.

2) You could suggest going to a pre-marriage counsellor, so you can both discuss any issues.

3) If your career is too good to give up, then maybe look for a compromise. If you give up something you love for somebody else, it could lead to resentment in the future.

4) Try not not be judgmental yourself if you partner objects to you continuing escorting whilst married. Their intentions may not be based on anything but adoration and wanting to spend more time with their wife

5) If you are in a situation where you have to choose wither your career or marriage, then why not go to a therapist to help talk through these issues. It may help having somebody talk through your thoughts and emotions with you, who is a professional.

If you are in love with an escort and the feelings mutual, then your relationship may be different to others you have had. Before you embark on a relationship you will have to respect her work and the hours her job may include. It can only work built on trust and understanding.

There is a great article on the Independent online website. It focused on escorts that married their clients. Again honesty sees to be the foundation of it working. So it can happen, even if it is a rare occurrence.